Wife was dating another woman
As I said earlier, some men leave their wives/girlfriends to be with the ‘other woman’ but it is the exception, not the norm.The reality is that: You both need to be on the same page.They accept that of course there will be some pain and hurt but that they want to be honest with integrity which is better than staying and cheating and pretending they have integrity.More often than not, no matter what is being said, the actions in the relationship show that the ‘Other Woman’ and the cheater are not on the same page because she’s trying to take things to the next level whilst he’s trying to maintain the status quo.They sort their lives out to be with you properly, sooner, rather than later.
Last week I wrote about Lovenomics: Managing your desire to be the exception, which was about how we choose to get caught up in illusions and believe that our relationships are being governed by exceptions and anomalies because we desperately want to be believe that our situation is not the rule.
Both of you have to be lied to, to maintain the deception.
7) The ‘other woman’ gives the cheater what he’s missing from his ‘main’ relationship.
and you’re regularly finding out that he’s been telling you porkies via the dripfeed manoeuvre, how can you trust this person to act in your interests and to do as says that he will?
The longer that the deception goes on for is the less likely that he’s going to leave.
This is basically like giving someone a ‘try before you buy’ option.