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Liquid courage to have sex often ends in liquid tears afterward.
In college culture, hooking up is often fueled by alcohol which implies that under sober circumstances women would choose not to have sex with a casual acquaintance.
And her statements about the sex differences are not derived from personal experience I suppose because they have been confirmed by countless surveys, studies and experiments.
Sounds like Pollyanna wrote this paper, in the 1950's. If you want babies, pick up a guy in a drunken state hoping for marriage and you are say, 28, yes-perhaps a hook-up could be depressing.
Although both women and men reported feeling dissatisfied with a lot of the hooking up they did do, women were particularly dissatisfied, probably related to the fact that their pleasure was secondary to the man's. But a double standard applied: Women still needed to manage their sexual encounters to avoid being stigmatized and marginalized for their sexual choices, whereas men had no such issue. They found an association between depression in women and casual sex that was stronger than that found for men.
I imagine that casual sex is more depressing for single women...
That said, when it comes to sex, if it feels good do it (safely), but if it does not feel good then why bother?
Women react differently when they are in a marriage/long term relationship and they are seeing other people.
So I will revert to the basic question of nature versus nurture.
If we're not so clear on the social aspects, let's explore the biological context.
When women have sex, oxytocin gets released because of the evolutionary drive to attach to someone who may be the potential father of a possible child. Men's bodies release testosterone which drives them off to go find some other women with whom to spread their biological material. Whatever works between consenting adults is not to be judged by me.