Generic dating website messages
This is information you’ll get eventually, but maybe we can keep it light and positive on the first few dates, please? Seriously, why does a man need to know if I live alone?
For me, the answer is always the same: “I like all types of guys.” I mean, if I’m on a date with you, it’s because I’m open to dating you, no matter what you look like. So, are you trying to make me to cry on our first date?I really wish you were right, but that’s what makes this question extra annoying: The same guys who ask me what I to do for fun will turn around in two weeks, and ask me what I would like to do for our first date, even though I’ve given them a list of things I do for fun. I mean, what is the right answer to a question like this?Should I say, “Well, I don’t hook up right away, so most guys get bored with me, and that’s why I’m single!You can give it one more try if you really want to make sure the message didn't get lost in someone’s inbox, but informing us that we haven’t gotten back to you in a timely enough fashion is not exactly going to charm us. Using pickup lines Nobody wants to feel like they're being manipulated.But pickup lines are designed to make women feel this way — because the user always has a specific goal in mind, and he's not achieving it by genuine means.
You've heard this advice about your cover letters, and it applies here too: Please don't write a message generic enough that it could have been copied and pasted.