Dating someone 7 years older
These women aren't uninterested or uninteresting; they simply haven't had to learn how to communicate with real people in real situations based on the world they grew up in. But just because you can also try Farmers if you're not technically a farmer, doesn't mean it's a good idea.
But what is a first date other than a test of communication between two strangers who are tossing around the idea of potentially engaging in sexual and emotional trust with the other? For these reasons, I beg of you to stay within the 8-year rule.
Maybe just one shot of whiskey instead of seven of vodka. We know what we want out of life, and we're probably not going to change it.
On these dates, decent — hell, I'd take simply flowing — conversation is hard to come by.Once you've run out of the stock chat options ("How many siblings do you have?What do However, it's difficult to simply be honest and have one of you say, "This is really not going well and that's neither of our faults. Conversation is a two-way street, not simply one person asking and the other answering.Here's an example of what I'm talking about, from a date I recently went on with a 22-year-old girl: In discussing how she planned on getting home after the date, her answer was simply, “Oh, my dad picks me up from the train station after work every day.”Her reason for this wasn't that she didn't have a car or that she was saving money.It was that she truly wanted to be able to drink as much as she desired any and every day, on a whim.
I could've saved a ton more money, and essentially, my social life as it is wouldn't be any different.