Dating self centered woman
Or maybe he isn't looking for anything serious and they think a self-centered rude girl will be less likely to get attached.
Or it could be he admires the girl's confidence.
And (just about) good-looking enough (but not too good-looking so that she'd play second fiddle). He must also be long on genuinely good jokes, with a decent sideline in bad ones that only she finds funny.
He needs to 'speak good restaurant', to have no special dietary requirements and to always be discerning without ever being fussy.
We have trouble accepting criticism and extending empathy because we are so preoccupied with ourselves. Of course, I joke, but researchers say there is growing evidence of an epidemic of ego-itis everywhere.
Once a traditionally male syndrome, narcissism generally begins at home and in schools, where children are praised excessively, often spoiled rotten and given the relentless message that they are 'special'.
Or it could be they admire the girl's confidence. The point is, I can't tell you why guys go after self-centered rude girls because a) not all guys do, and b) different guys have different motivations.
If all the guys you're interested seem to act that way, I've got two pieces of advice for you. Second, you're not going to get what you want with this attitude.
You never asking why "men go for self-centered, rude girls", you're implying that men as a whole do this, which is definitely not the case. Or maybe they aren't looking for anything serious and they think a self-centered rude girl will be less likely to get attached.And it's not just about how intelligent they think they are.In the workplace, in friendships, even in motherhood, the pervading culture seems to have become one of competitiveness, superiority and one-upmanship.Lumping all guys together like that changes the way you see men.Instead of coming at each guy with a clean slate, your brain will be automatically assuming that since he's a guy, he goes after self-centered rude girls since he's a guy, because that's what (you've trained yourself to think) guys do.