Dating relationship with single parent
He's telling you stories [lying] to you] of how he acquired his wealth.If he's lying to you about something like this, then there are more lies to come.I'd also ask yourself what made you feel the need to be dishonest about not owning your business and do some work on that. This is about why you would even consider dating someone who clearly isn't who he says he says.Maybe by being more genuine yourself, you will meet someone else more genuine? What does being intimated by the wife have to do with anything?I get it's exciting but you have a child, and this person has truth/reality issue. You are already putting yourself at a disadvantage by acting like you don't deserve answers... anon Sorry to sound harsh, but since Mike's money seems to be what you find most appealing about him, it sounds like you'll need to move on to someone who can give you the ''glamorous lifestyle'' you are looking for.
And if it was the woman who was getting support, no one would question it.
I know how hard it is to be single and wanting companionship, [as I've been there], but, please, do not be foolish and get more attached to this guy [fall in love with him] and get hurt or slammed in the end.
Wishing you the best, judith Rather than worry about the ''real'' man you're dating or ending it why not start a conversation about money, hard as that is. Unless you can speak honestly about such difficult subjects as money and values and expectations within the relationship you don't have much to base a real relationship upon.
After I talked with some friends, I went to the courthouse and reviewed Mike's public divorce file.
I just want to know if his ex will be knocking on the door for support and money and taking away from the life Mike and I will have. While I won't go into details, what I read in the file was not the Mike I know and, his wife gave him the house, the country club membership and she pays him child support. She has a successful business, is well educated and she's younger than me.
From what Mike has told me, his ex just up and left him and he has to care for the kids.